Intimacy Coaching
Hi, I'm Victoria!
After 20 years in marketing and 8 years as a career and executive coach, I embarked on a journey of intimacy discovery. I noticed how my successful career was making me undateable as I struggled to form meaningful relationships and connect with my erotic self. My personal journey fuelled my professional education, culminating in a Sex Coach certification from the Sexual Health Alliance in the US.
While diving into the latest science of sex, I was blown away by how much misinformation we’ve all absorbed: media and movies often portray intimacy in completely inaccurate ways. At the same time, the state of intimacy is critical: we all crave deeper connections, yet so many of us struggle in our relationships.
This realisation motivated me to launch For Play Couples Chocolate, an intimate gift designed to help couples make time for intimacy, and start my coaching practice.
The Naked Truth in the Press
From expert tips to the latest scientific findings, explore Victoria's take on intimacy and pleasure.
Embrace the power of intentional intimacy
I see intimacy as a continuum between emotional and physical connection. For some people, emotional intimacy comes first, and once they feel it, they are ready to connect physically. For others, it’s the opposite.
Sadly, life, careers, and kids often leave us disconnected from each other and from our own erotic selves.
The crisis of intimacy is undeniable: half of couples end up in divorce, and another 20% feel unfulfilled. Yet, the quality of our relationships is the most significant factor in life happiness.
I see intimacy not just as an experience or skillset: it’s a vehicle for personal growth, a space where you can truly get to know yourself and your partner on a deeper level.
Intimacy Coaching
I help women and couples in London and online deepen intimacy and discover their full erotic potential.
Intimacy Coaching for Women
— Reconnect with your erotic self, desires, and pleasure
— Overcome shame and negative social conditioning around sexuality
— Learn to express your needs and boundaries with clarity
— Explore and embrace your sensuality and erotic potential
— Heal from past experiences that affect your intimate life
— Learn the tools and techniques that allow greater pleasure
— Discover mindfulness techniques to enhance intimacy and pleasure
— Explore your sexuality solo or in a safe environment
— Cultivate a deeper connection with yourself and your partners
Intimacy Coaching for Couples
— Reconnect with each other emotionally and physically
— Improve communication and conflict resolution
— Deepen desire, pleasure, and passion
— Expand your intimate and erotic experiences
— Learn tools and techniques for more desire and pleasure
— Explore freely fantasies, open relationships and kinks
— Work through shame and negative social conditioning
— Explore fun date ideas and new sexual experiences together
Intimacy Events, Workshops, and Retreats
— Learn about intimacy as a skill: physical, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual
— Embrace the power of intentional intimacy
— Discover mindfulness techniques to enhance presence and pleasure
— Gain practical tools for self-awareness, communication, and conflict resolution
— Embrace a pleasure-first approach to expand joy and deepen intimacy
— Cultivate openness and confidence to discuss sex, desires, and boundaries
— Learn about cutting-edge sex science that hasn’t yet been popularised
Collaborations & Podcasts
The power of desire
Listen to the secrets for keeping desire flamingly hot! From treating sex like a workout to embracing your kink, these tips are sure to ignite your imagination.
Intimacy, love & sex o'clock
Explore the art of balancing love, intimacy, and career while discovering how to ignite desire, communicate your needs, and break free from dating patterns.
Longevity and intimacy
Join the video series with Jolt, the ultimate age blocker supplements, and Lyndsey and Russell Kane for sex-enhancing fitness tips and spicy intimacy advice.
Your body, your rules
An event in collaboration with Agora Health exploring sexuality, prioritising intimate health and well-being, and discussing erotic potential and multi-dimensional intimacy.
Play Journal
Explore the naked truths about intimacy, expert tips, playful inspiration, and the latest scientific findings on all things sex.
Build Your Epic Intimate Life in 2025
Dive into the art of intentional intimacy, where reflection, communication, and rituals can transform your 2025 into a year of pleasure.
Letting go of the “orgasm" mindset opens up a whole new playground for pleasure, where the journey’s just as thrilling as the destination.
